Three of Swords, Motherpeace Tarot

Whatever the drama - it's in our heads ;)

Something the ego REALLY doesn't like to hear ':)

But like yesterday, it's not about shaming ourselves for this. 
It's ok if A PART OF US feels or perceives it's about us.
That it's happening TO us. Or even thinking it's BECAUSE of us.
This part has its reasons to be 'on guard', on the alert, be perfect?
Once upon a time it HAD to.
But does it now?
#InternalFamiltySystems 

It's about having compassion for our (trauma) reactions and automatic defense mechanisms, and about entertaining new perspectives on our situation.
And remembering that whatever the 'other' is doing/saying (or not) may very possibly be rooted in trauma too... 
So it may not about dissonance, but #TraumaMeetingTrauma

Again I paraphrase Peter Crone, "words can only hurt to the extent we believe them ourselves"
And whatever actions (or non-actions) 'hurting us' let's first 'go to ourselves.
As long as it's not right out abusive, let's give the other the benefit of a doubt.
Let's have compassion for the wounds of others, and let's take the opportunity to explore our own wounds.
Jupiter is about to meet Chrion for the first time in 50 years - the timing is perfect ;)

Let's not be the person we think we have to/must be - but let's be the one we WANT to be :)

Deck: #MotherPeaceTarot
Theme: "staying strong in your womanhood/femininity"