Three of Pentacles, Chalice Tarot

Just because we don't like how or what others do or say, there's no gain (for anyone) in 'talking back' or turning against others - no one likes being told 'who they are' or what to do (or not do)!

(card of yesterday)

P3 traditionally shows 'collaboration'. Three people around one task, putting their different capacities to best use or something like that.
Here I see 'one turning against the others'. Two somewhat happy mouths, and a rather unhappy one turned towards or against them.

But then the card itself is reversed, so maybe we're finally 'getting over', or slowly releasing this attitude!?
The attitude of 'showing our discontent' when 'feeling displeased' with something, or someone, or something that is 'done to us'.
The urge of 'wanting others to know (how we feel)' - or rather - that we think they are wrong in some way. 
Before we didn't even realise we did it, it was automatic.
Base on a feeling so intense we couldn't help but think it was real. This feeling of 'being wronged', this 'them against me' sensation. Or 'ALL against me' even ':)
Now we know: it's real, but not true.

Most of all - our feelings have nothing to do with others, though the brain automatically goes there. It's programmed so!
We are (generally) taught from an early age about blame and shame, 'us and them'. And what comes to us before the age of 7 gets programmed into our circuits and nervous system (#JoeDispanza )

It takes awareness and active work to break patterns, to rewrite to program with something more alignment with our souls and who we truly are (instead of who (the crumbling) society thinks we should be).
And THIS might be The Most Important work we can do in our lifetime.

And, it does little to nothing to try and change (the programming of) others!
Or 'make others aware of their programs'.
They're unconscious - just like we used to be (and, still are in many, many areas - something to remember before calling someone else out...).

Finally it's permeating us that it doesn't help to 'stand up' in a confronting way. Not even if we call it 'facing something', or have the conviction that they need to 'know what they've done', as they are oblivious to it, and it's OUR perception of truth.
"Teaching" can easily turn to (or at least be perceived as) preaching or 'being told what to do' - and who likes that?!

Deck: #ChaliceTarot