Three of Cups + Six of Swords, Infinity + Royo Dark

Festivities (with a diabolic touch) "that give relief and lift us towards new destinations", but first - a dark night of the soul transition ><)

Isn't it a funny "coincidence" that I were at a party this Friday, where a bonfire large and hot enough to fit in Hell itself was made?! 
Of course more than this fire 'happened'! This gathering unfolded in such a way that the mentioned "relief" was given and experienced in my system (and probably others). This for sure opened doors for "new destinations" relationship-wise (recognize how it's a couple, and not three women as we are used to see in the C3).

As in all great releases and experiences there's a Devil lurking around, quick to offer temptations us or try leading us astray.
The Devil is of course our own fears and habits - including fear of temptation funnily enough..! Or, fear or our own desires. Making us think we're doing something 'bad', 'wrong' or right-out "diabolic", when we follow our "lower instincts".
Partly because SO much is labelled bad and wrong in our society, for a shit-load of reasons.

Anyhow.
Actions have been taken, desires have been followed - releases have been felt. Doors have opened! 
Yes, we now know SO much more about HOW WE WANT TO BE in a relationship (the 'new destination') because of this 'diabolic' (brave) action and the experience that followed because of it.
How we can 'attract' what we want, or 'create the future' we want!

Yay - all cheers and roses!!
Not at all, of course.

First, a shit-load of insecurities and patterns must 'have their say'.
Enter Royo Dark Tarot - Fark Forces pulling.

'We must NOT believe this experience, and most of all - NOT ENTER ANY NEW DOORS!!'

The inner defense system sounds the alarm, and sends out a battery of messages (thoughts).
It does everything it can to get us back to SAFETY.

It's NOT safe to act on desires like this it exclaims.
We WILL get hurt. Sooner or later.

Yes, we WILL.
It DOES hurt to invite people into our lives - but only because they trigger hurts that are already in there!
Relationships ARE the road to healing these hurts!

News flash: it does NOT help to have our shields up, it hurst anyway!
Actually - more.
But it gives that false sense of 'control'
We're actually less vulnerable if we embrace our vulnerability!

So, if we just 'sit tight in the boat' (the image on the trad S6) the alarms will eventually quiet down, and we can move on towards our dreams, towards the New Destinations we've had a taste of!

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