The Tower, Romantic Tarot

Deconstructing relationships - bottom up!

Sometimes our relationships 'suffer a blow'. Things unexpectedly change. 
That it appears as 'suffering' is most likely because it turned out different from what we wanted, thought or wished - hence it is easy to perceive everything is being 'turned up-side-down'.
So it's not just unexpected - because unexpected can equally be an awesome surprise.
Here something is unexpected in a 'negative sense'. 
An unwelcome surprise/shift.
But only because it's contrary to our perspective and wish for how things 'ought to develop'.

Therefore, in truth, it's NOT unexpected.
It's one of those 'bound to happen'.
Either to force us to make a change we haven't had the strength to chose ourselves, or to force us to change our way of thinking - in reference to relationships, especially close ones. 

Have we stayed in 'outdated' relationships for too long, out of some fear to end it, to 'become alone'?
Have we been dishonest with ourselves or (and therefore) another in relationships?
Have someone else 'done something' that have shaken our grounds - revealing 'were we're not free' (#PeterCrone ) or were our foundations weren't that strong after all?

In one way or another we're in the midst of 'earth chattering' changes relationship wise.
If it appears to 'happening to us' it's because we haven't looked deep enough inside.
Because everything is truly happening FOR us.
For us to grow beyond set limitations or beliefs, in a matter that requires us to really stretch beyond what we even thought was possible.
Giving us the opportunity to practice understanding, forgiveness and gentleness to an extent we couldn't even imagine we had in us.

An invitation to not get bogged down in the negative, or to project our pain and fears outwards, but to
#allow #accept #embrace
Be gentle with ourselves - and think twice before we judge others.

Oh this lovely self-organizing universe.
Chaos is part of the order.

Deck: #RomanticTarot