The Lovers, Women of Science Tarot

Pioneering a new kind of relationship!

Finally done with the Hollywood thing - the 'you complete me' type of relationships!
The dramas, the compromises, strings attached, keeping scores, blaming, shaming.

As with any pioneering endeavor, it's not without some trial and error and confusion. 
Trial and error on our part trying to feel and intuit our way forward in this new territory, and confusion as most people haven't seen or experienced 'unconditional love', transparence, or been offered total freedom and the space to 'make mistakes' - look at those confused insecure fellows having received a strange red fruit!

The trial and error thing sort of implies 'making mistakes' on our part, and the confusion of the receiving part can give rise to all kinds of reactions.
Both may induce confusion, anxiety and insecurity within us - trigger fears.
'Making' us second and third guess our words and actions (or the whole endeavor...) - and ourselves, and our worth.

A very good time and place to make one of those famous pauses!

To remind ourselves that 'fear is safe' (#RichardRudd )
Both the fear and reactions (or lack thereof) in others and in ourselves.
#TraumaResponses
#allow #accept #embrace  
Then to realign with our Purpose and our intention - our 'Mission', our soul, our intuition - with Love and Compassion.

There's nothing that must be 'solved' - the 'next step' will reveal itself in due time!
Now it's about giving space - to ourselves and to others.
Space to leave, or come back.
#Freedom

Trusting the Process of creating a totally new way of relating!
#Healing #Evolution 

Deck: #WomenOfSciencetTarot