The Lovers + Strength, Voyager + Gill

Integrating (inner) polarities and further developing and changing our personal view on strength.

"oneness through the marriage of opposites" - "with another and/or the integration of your own inner polarities"

It may require us to let go of some old aspect of 'strength'.
Lessen our 'roaring' - if 'making a lot of noise' has been our way to 'make ourselves heard' before.
Roaring can be a sign of opposing. Or resisting.
How can we today instead resist roaring? Resist to resist? :)
Refrain from opposing?

"You are continually faced with choices"
Opportunities to act in resistance and opposition, or 'from love' and an intention to integrate.
That doesn't mean to hug everyone around us - but to hug everything within us.

It might very well even mean to choose to say NO to something or someone - but that can be done silently you know!
Everything doesn't have to come with explanations or that we get to 'have our say'. Aka the ego demanding to 'get our opinion through', often rewritten into some 'well intended lesson' we think the other should have or must hear.
It NOT our task to hand out (non asked for) lessons - that's for karma, for the Universe to do.

OUR task is to 'integrate our own polarities' - NOT project our inner conflict outwards. Make it another's 'problem' or task.
Maybe the other WANT to 'collaborate' - awesome! If not - that's their free will.
And it's our free will to stay or go - embrace a fact, or fight it (try to 'change it').

It may require 'letting go of pride' - an old (loud) version of Strength.
But it'll be worth it!

The relationship we have with ourselves is our most important one - it's the only one we're in 24/7.

Deck1: #VoyagerTarot
Deck2: #GillTarot