The Lovers, Royo Dark Tarot

Relationship is a bitch?! ;) ':)

Relationships truly are the best growing grounds - especially having 2nd lines in your profile! (#GeneKeys )
I "am" a 2/5 (#HumanDesign )
And a Libra Rising (incl Libra Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto, Lilith, Juno, Venus ':)) with Pallas Athena in my 7th house (#Astrology )

They can trigger the shit out of us, drain us, frustrate us, anger us, oppress us.
Or can they? Are they?
Or are they merely invitations to grow?

People (and events) enter into our lives to "reveal were we're not yet free", as #PeterCrone so eloquently phrases it.
So whenever a persons words, behaviour, or actions 'bug' us or 'put us out of balance' we have the opportunity to 'work on our balance'.
A strong, healthy, rooted tree doesn't 'fall over' no matter how much the wind blows.
It may bend though - so true balance isn't about rigidity!
The crown, branches and trunk may move, elegantly, but it's "feet" are rooted in it's soil (though there ARE rare trees that actually move).

It takes time and practice to achieve this kind of natural balance, and rooted strength.
First and foremost: we must we stand on, or build the right soil.
That we truly get to know our core values, core genius, core worth - our own hearts. What truly nurtures us.
Until we do we do well in 'playing dead' from time to time in our relationships! ':)
Especially when 'feeling/being out of balance'.
Put our feet wide and just let the winds play with our upper bodies.
This is not about 'giving in' it's about 'going within'.

Contemplate the relationships we have, without reacting. No matter how much someone 'is all over us'!
Words are just noise - like winds - they can only 'make us fall over' if we're not rooted enough, or rooted in the wrong or nutrient deficient soil!
Let's contemplate our soils!
Silence is powerful!

Deck: #RoyoDarkTarot