Ten of Cups, Ethereal Visions Tarot

The importance of engaging in growing relationships.

Yesterday we got a 'give of our gifts' and 'serve' message.
Today we can reflect upon how it feels when something feels off in this area, as we have probably been of service in a 'less than optimal way' some time since yesterday morning!

It can be the usage of energy we don't actually had, and/or we were in a place were we couldn't say no - we felt we owed someone. Maybe rightfully, in terms of helping a person back. But we can feel in our whole body that something 'felt off'.
It's right to 'return a favor' - that's what you do as a responsible member of society (theme of yesterday ,:)). But more clearly than ever can we feel that it's a relationship of no growth. Our help/investment inspires no change. We are merely asked to 'save a situation' again and AGAIN. Asked to solve situations born out of neglect or bad planning again and again.
Something in our hearts ache when we 'help' this way.
As we are merely sponsoring 'misalignment', or even - addiction.
Nothing 'flowy' or beautiful about it.
Nothing like what we are seeing in this card.

So, in some sense a "broken relationship", which the card talks about for the reverse.

We are not here to serve neglect.
We are here to serve connection, presence, growth.
That's how and were we will find "happiness and satisfaction".

A pressing and palpable need to lessen our engagement in relationships not resembling what's illustrated in this card.
Relationships based on or clearly heading towards always raising levels of connection, closeness, intimacy, growth, birth, warmth, happiness, fulfilment. 

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