Queen of Wands, Sun and Moon Tarot

Let's bring the temperature up and see who stays ;) Or, release the fear of 'being too much'.

Too much for whom?

I really like what I found over at BiddyTarot:
QoW Rx "shows you have reached a place of self-respect and confidence. You know yourself on a deep level, and you are clear on your personal truth and belief systems. You know what you stand for and you are not easily moved by the opinions of others. You have also defined what success means to you, even if it differs from others' definitions."

A place we can find only through our hearts.
Not with our eyes, or the five senses, and it can be hard to put words on - all people in this deck have no faces.

It's a great step to actually live this 'knowing' though!
Especially if we're used to pleasing, doing what others expect from us, fulfilling others expectations.
Then the leap to truly live a personally fulfilling life can be challenging.
It means going through the feelings of 'disappointing others', and similarly.
Perception wise or in actuality - that is, much of it is in our heads and our own belief, but then there are those that will 'get/act disappointed'.

If we have to hold our own emotions, passions, needs and FIRE back to 'keep someone happy' - we have to ask ourselves why!

Let's agree on only nurturing relationships and things were our fires are allowed, and welcomed, to burn brightly!
Not in any aggressive or offensive way, but by radiating our particular enthusiasm and passion - and see who stays.
Who stays and who we attract. Who cheer us on and who wants to voluntarily join in on our frequency.
Enough with the 'making others join/enthuse with us', or chasing others' dreams.

For now it's not necessarily about action, but about becoming stable in our 'knowing who we are and what we want' - and nurture that fire - ourselves, our passions, our creativity, our core drive and enthusiasm. "No matter what"

Deck: #SunAndMoonTarot