Queen of Pent's + Trap, Healing + Love Pack

Finding 'the golden' mean when it comes to helping and inspiring others, but also regarding our capacity for 'self-containment' - as to not create a selfmade and lonely "cage"

There is such a thing as both 'helping too much' and being 'too neutral' and 'too self-contained'.

If we "help too much", it can have the effect of others beginning to help themselves less. And of course, it's then not primarily about helping, but rather about us pleasing and wanting to be 'good', and us not being able to stand another's struggle and suffering - which might very well (most probably) be a very necessary part of their journey and eventual awakening.
That for sure creates a burdensome trap that seems rather difficult to get out of! When in truth not - just very uncomfortable, as our patterns will rage at us if we stop, and 'the other' will likely too in some way ,:) 

And, being too focused on giving and being "overly" self-contained can give the impression that we don't need company at all! It can make us seem 'unapproachable' and make others feel rather superfluous and therefore preferring to 'stay away' from us. Depending on how our 'never needing help' is broadcasted it can give the sensation that we are complete as it is, and that we don't need the addition of another human being in our life ,:)
It's in the heart and core of everyone to want to be of service in one way or another - renouncing all sorts of support risk pushing others away. As few people like the feeling of being the only one receiving and never having the pleasure to give.
It creates a trap of a more lonely kind than the first.

Maybe it's time to become a little bit more needy?! ;)
Or at least contemplate receptiveness and responsiveness!

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