Queen of Pentacles, Sweet Twilight Tarot

What better way to manage our fears than to mother and ground them?

It's scary, this twilight phase. When it's neither light or dark. Is the sun setting or going up?
Again, a big part of us might scream for clarity right now #InternalFamilySystems
But isn't it funny how it seems to get more confusing the more we try?!
Especially if we search for the clarity outside. Hoping that others will 'give it to us' one way or another.

"Deeply comfortable in her home and her environment, the Queen of Pentacles is a nurturing soul, a person who exudes care and compassion."
Isn't that the only way to feel safe - deeply comfortable in our home and environment - our bodies.
If we are afraid of what's happening inside our bodies, it's impossible to feel fully safe and comfortable anywhere.

Sure, it can be that we NEED to put some attention to the outside, because the things happening and triggering really ARE things that must be taken care of. But then maybe more in the terms of how (we WANT to) relate to them rather than trying to 'arranging (solving) them to our comfort' as quickly as comfortable. And honestly, how often isn't it that the discomfort just increases instead when we go down this route?! Because we're focused on getting rid of the discomfort rather than asking what the discomfort is really about.

Now we might need to care for our hurt AND keep a grounded composure and radiate compassion outwards too.
The multitasking generous mother! :D

Care for our wounds, without shrinking ourselves, without becoming our wounds (becoming the 'victim of circumstances').

Deck: #SweetTwilightTarot