Queen of Cups + The Magician, Friends + Harmonious

'Putting the lid on and showing up as our most glowing selves' - taking personal responsibility of our emotions, and not using them as bait or leverage!

Not yack about all our feelings to all and everyone, and especially not as a way to 'create rapport' or 'get attention'.
NOT use force, will power or 'all our might' (Magician) to try and CREATE harmony, which would only amount to MANIPULATION (reversed) and codependency.

A rather unusual rendering of the Magician. A somewhat shady looking old man, with two young brides on each side!
Quite a different energy compared to the one the pristine looking Phoebe radiates.

An advice to continue to develop and remain in this radiant, pure (almost naive) and nurturing approach/energy and continuously less in a 'strategic cunning' one (which might have been our go to earlier in life - to "get what we want").

This echoes much of what was presented yesterday, with the Devil reversed. Breaking free from old 'less appealing' (or TOO appealing ;)) habits and energies when it comes to relationship matters (Knight of Cups YD).
When one consciously or unconsciously 'lure another' into a relationship - which is then bound to be a dependent one. With no TRUE Harmony whatsoever. Because in a practical sense, it's not a voluntary relationship. Fear is then the glue keeping you together - not freedom! 

It's a scary common thing for women to 'use their emotions' to get or keep a man! (Been there, got the T-shirt, have thrown it out)
Unconsciously of course. But it IS manipulation.
"Forgive them, for they know not what they do"

"When you know better - do better".
And we are!
#EmotionalIntelligence #EmotionalResponsibility #RadicalResponsibilty