Queen of Cups + Seven of Swords, Sex Fortunes + Star Spinner

Waiting for others to 'please us' more often than not end up in us feeling 'robbed' or 'deceived'.

It's getting ridiculous - #SexFortunesTarot 4 times in 12 days!
A lot of 'merging' and pondering about how we relate to 'short time pleasure' (vs investment for long-term satisfaction).

We are many that easily give up on our own needs and end up surrounded by 'what's in it for me' people.
People calling us only when they need something from us, when they're bored, or when they have that rare minute to 'spare'. People who seem to basically 'forget about us' most of the time.
Not unlikely mirroring how we've forgotten ourselves, in one way or another.

So maybe it isn't that wondrous that we attract these people - those who "deceive" us, promise or say shit they don't mean (or live up to)!
If our actions show a person turning down (aka not caring) about her/his own needs, we basically tell others that our needs don't matter.
And then we get 'mad' or disappointed when OTHERS don't meet the needs we just neglected ourselves. That's actually more peculiar when you think about it ;)
"Human", but peculiar. Irresponsible one might say. Immature.
Or unaware/unconscious - if we haven't looked at it 'that way' #symbolically #symbolism

Time to 'satisfy our own needs'. Get a little more ... 'greedy'.

That's another thing.
Is the 'greediness' or 'self-absorption' of other people annoying us? The way others put themselves first?
If it's a repeated theme it might be to highlight how we are NOT putting ourselves first!
(but thinking everyone else should fulfil our needs is rather self-absorbed too ;))

I say it again: North Node in Aries.
It's about US, not them.
Time to #GrowUp ;)

Deck1: #SexFortunesTarot
Deck2: #StarSpinnerTarot