Push Me, Pull Me - Love Pack

Ambivalence.

Wanting love, fearing love. Wanting connection, fearing asking for what we truly want.

"a pendulum-swing between courage and fear, between desire and shyness"

Maybe we finally did 'put our feet down' based on 'an insight on a non-negotiable' in some way - full of strength, conviction and courage we took some action. "Pushed" something and/or someone away.
And now Doubt and a sense of fragility creeps up on us.
It comes from "past emotional fractures."

We're we too 'aggressive'? Too 'final'? Too early? Too un-compromising?
Some part of us (#IFS ) cannot stand the silence, or the void, that came in the wake of our decision and accompanied action.
It felt so right then, and so uncomfortable now.
Discomfort have a tendency to 'make us' doubt decisions and actions. #guilt and #regret are not slow join the party.
If it WAS right it would have continued to feel good, right?

'Wrong'.
#TraumaResponse #EmotionalFracture

It's the divided mind. 
"One side values relationships and the other side wants freedom"
Or one side wants to go it's own way, the other wants to 'all be friends and compromise'.

It can show itself in "acting in one way and feeling another" or "the pull of conflicting wishes".

I feel this a case of #healing by 'sitting through it'.
'Waiting out the emotional wave #HumanDesign #EmotionalAuthority

A feeling does NOT equal 'having to act on it'
#AcceptEmbraceRelease 

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