Nine of Cups + King of Swords, New Vision + Gorgon's

Oh, such a delicate mix of decks and cards. My intuitive logic loves this message, but I think i will have troubles distilling it.

Deck: #NewVision
Theme: "gaining new perspectives"

Deck: #GorgonsTarot
Theme: "monsters serving unexpected purposes"

Were called to look at happiness in a new way. Our own happiness in particular (9, not 10).
Are we happy letting our feminine soft side stand merely as a bystander (stuffing her face with cookies)?! 
Probably not.
The important thing here is to not 'get mad at the boys' - Boys just being boys. (The King reversed talks about "revenge")

How can we gain a new perspective at the situation were in, or - the feelings we're carrying within that might have been triggered?
We can look at them. 
Look "at the monsters under the bed".
Not the monsters out there - people maybe 'playing without us', or 'letting us play only on their terms'.

Also - most probably - your not put to the side because of you, but because of their fear.
Look at those boys playing with armored knights, building forts. 
It might be that someone in your surroundings are focusing more on their defenses now.
Maybe it's you who triggered something in them, maybe it's someone/something else - anyhow it's better to let them deal with it on their own. And not engage in 'getting answers', or again - revenge. 

Cans open - worms everywhere (Medusa is a Gorgon)
No worries.
Have a cookie :)

Go about this in a controlled manner, and tend to your own feelings - care less about others eventually erratic behavior. 
Care less about the triggers, and more about the triggered wound within that needs your care.