Knight of Pent's + Ace of Pent's, Feline Rider + Sasuraibito

Slow, steady, continued effort and focus strengthens the foundation and makes way for opportunities!

I finally got it, the 2nd card YD was a warning. To not 'move to fast', but to continue the 'bonding' (C3) and the 'womanhood lineage studies'. To not haste and apply what we've already learned in our relationships, out of sheer 'lust' and the false assumption that "we've got it now".
It would have been to push it, and - as the card said - it would probably have been the road to failure (in a relationship).

Maybe we've got it, maybe we've don't. But not only that, the other party probably (also) need some time. To process the information we have already 'dropped on them'. This #polarity perspective can be a hard pill to swallow, even if it resonates, as it is so far from what we are 'indoctrinated' with. Even for the strongest man it can be tough, after a life-time of being told to be 'nice and soft'. And, in 'polarity fashion', this shift in thinking and acting is not something the woman can actively help the man with!

We can inform them and talk about 'how this is how we look on life and relationships', but then we have to leave it to them to do what they want with the information. Even if we can see a whole body relaxation in them from merely hearing about it, and clearly resonating with it.
Remembering that that they JUST got the information and perspective presented this clearly, and that we have been studying it deeply for months!

Even if it resonated with them massively in the moment, the defense system can and will react afterwards.
We shouldn't 'lead them through it'. 
In polarity fashion we must focus on OUR role - the feminine part of it. To NOT take ANY lead or try and push the development "in the right direction". Or to try and "ease the process" for the man.
(strong) men like challenges!
It would certainly just defeat the process to intervene NO MATTER HOW WELL INTENDED.
Lead to failure, as YD card so clearly pointed out.

KnoP
"His endurance is how he wins"
"loyalty and determination"
Integrity

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