Justice + The Lovers, Girlfriend's + Romantic

Do we wanna be 'right' or happy? :)

#RomanticTarot 4 times in 14 days.

'The key to any relationship is having your shit together (in balance)'?
Or 'embracing all of ourselves rather than judging ourselves (and/or others)'.
As 'all is one', meaning 'if we judge others we judge ourselves', and vice versa.

Balance meaning 'inner balance' - and not in terms of 'having all things (and people...) in your outer life under control'.
I'm referencing to the blindfold and being in balance 'independently of what happens on the outside'.

When we truly know who we are and have the capacity, will and tools to take full responsibility of our inner experience, our thoughts and our emotions - we know how to navigate any relationship.
We will know who to engage with, when and how.
We take responsibility of the consequences of our own actions, and let others make their own decisions regarding taking responsibility - we don't play judges, pretending to know THE Truth.
We focus on knowing OUR truth, and living it - without pushing it on others, or force others to agree/comply.

We know what happens happens for us, not to us, so there's no reason to lash out, find people to blame, or project eventual discontentment onto others.
Though we may not have reached 'Christ level' when it comes to embodying this, we're diligently practicing this truth as best as we can as often as we can.

Rather than judging, we recognize ourselves in others.
We search to expand our view and understand 'the other' (or - what we refuse to see in ourselves).

As long as we judge or don't want to accept what we attract into our lives we will likely attract more of the same.
The more we embrace and accept the easier our life will appear - the lovelier and smoother our relationships will feel!

Let's not listen to our egos telling us that 'having our will' (be right) will 'make us happy'!

Deck1: #GirlfriendsTarot
Deck2: #RomanticTarot

#RightOrHappy