Judgement, Vampyres Tarot

It's essential to become aware of which circumstances and engagements that are draining us (rather than nourishing us).

It's not THEM or THEIR fault though, it's US allowing it - not being aware enough and/or 'setting necessary boundaries' (saying no :))

Time to limit the amount we say or think things such as:
"It doesn't harm, I just get a little tired by it/them, that's all - I can rest afterwards"
"I don't want to 'let them down'"
"I don't have anything better to do anyways"
"I have the time"
"They've asked so many times/they really want (I feel the pressure to...)"
"I have always..."

To sum it up: it's becoming more and more important how, when and where, and with whom, we spend our precious time and energy :)
Even if the way we want to spend our time perplexes or vexes people (we feel judged)!

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