Five of Cups, Romantic Tarot

Look at this little drama! :)
But it probably portrays how we feel about something, or probably - someone!
Better to admit it and laugh a bit about it than act it out :D

And then focus on what the card interpretation implies: accepting a fact, and ending something in clarity (rather than pounding on the other that is) :)
The fact being a 'difference in frequency', or difference in core values, or different dreams, or too diverging perspectives on life - not another being a douchebag!
Really.
They are just most likely acting 'from their level of consciousness', and it becomes more and more apparent that it is not our task to try and 'level them up' NOR to blame them for their behavior.
And neither to try and 'sugar coat' our newfound clarity about our needs.

But also not blame ourselves if we have (habitually) tried in some way. Or blame ourselves we've 'stayed to long' or 'trusted/put up with too much'.
I read the word "regrets".

"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened in any other way - because it didn't" #PeterCrone
It takes two to tango, and so on.

We acted on what we knew then, the information we had.
It was right then, hence it is right now.
It's just that we've realised things we didn't see/know then.
Circumstances have changed - and our egos don't like that - hence the regrets!
Our egos feel 'fooled'.
Egos doesn't really value 'life lessons' ,:) unless it's giving them ;)

We did our best, and sometime it only takes os so far - exactly as far as we need to in fact :)
For us to learn something particular about ourselves!
In this case: what we need.
And, that we can't make someone give it to us - and nor should we wait for them to magically and suddenly want to give it ,:)

"you end the game and take away everything you can" - our lessons learned!
And now know how to act and be even more authentically henceforth!

Deck: #RomanticTarot