Ace of Cups + Two of Cups, Bones + Love Goddess

2 days of 'massive loss' (3 Five of Cups) is followed by a double 'ending of a relationship'.

Bones Tarot, symbolizing 'hard facts', suggesting it's something 'inevitable' about it - like mentioned yesterday.
No matter how much 'loss' in involves, it is for the good - to build something even better 'with what's left' (the NOT SPILLED cups in the C5s).
The 'beginning of a new path' I've quoted/written about for 2 days too.

The Ace reiterates this theme. It talks about how our relationships forms us. How we can call it 'baggage' or something we learn from. How we can take 'that which is still there' with us into the new. How we can choose to not let 'loss and regret' make us harder and 'afraid to love again', but actually LOVE MORE. As every relationship teaches us more about ourselves and what we want and need - and DON'T want and need. It can teach us to make different choices 'from now on'.

The reversed Ace specifically mentions: 'ending a toxic relationship'.
A hint about the toxicity: all the focus on loss and disappointment the past two days. Suggesting that there might blaming and shaming involved. Yet, 'we stand firm'. We don't succumb to 'low level communication', and we don't get into any 'fixing games'. Our choice is made. It's not 'an opinion' or 'merely a feeling' for us by now - it's a FACT. We want something else.

Then the Love Goddess Tarot with the exact same message ('heartbreak, ending a relationship), giving me the sense that it's partly about 'making room for the divine feminine'. That the 'toxic relationship' that is being ended contains a little too much of the 'modern' feminine maybe. Which is more masculine than divine. Making it just a little bit too hard for the man to embody the Divine Masculine.
And if that's something he yearns to do, not 'having space for it' is excruciating. Toxic for the soul.

It might be quite the chock to wake up to this realisation. That a relationship you've 'building and been happy in for years' suddenly feels intensely draining, making it impossible for you NOT to end it - no matter the 'loss'.

Writing for a friend <3